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paragraphein

This was too good. I had to link back to it.

Thank you, Kohana. For taking the time to lay it all out. Thanks.

Heather

Wow! Your first sentence says it all - "amazing insight".

erinthebeekeeper

This was a GREAT post. thanks for the information. Just another in a LONG line of things that have to be changed in adoption!

mommyinmaking

I teach Englsih at the COllege level. I think you did a good job siting. There are a lot of technicalities with siting that you didn't do, but that's all for us stuffy English people, I don't you could get nailed for plagerism.

mommyinmaking

oops I mean citing

cloudscome

This chapter really hit home for me too. I was living in the city during the "crack baby epidemic" and I saw a lot of sadness and trauma in the families around us. Crack was just the last straw for many people. It is heart-breaking. It really makes me angry to think how our government works for the benefit of the comfortable at the expense of the ones already suffering. It blows me away how much this has effected my own family in so many ways.

Emmie (Better Make It A Double)

Very interesting, informative post. Thank you - you made me think.

turquoise

I'm a lurker on the agency forum website. I found your post through Paragraphein's log.

I'm finding this article confusing, I'm also wondering when it was written. The author referred to a tax credit but I'm wondering if she was actually referring to an adoption subsidy. A tax credit is a one time credit given as a reimburesement for adoption fees. A subsidy is continuing financial support for families adopting special needs children - which I understand to include children with long term medical or mental health issues, older children or sibling groups. There is no adoption fee for these cases (in my state) so there would be no tax credit.

My understanding was that there were an awful lot of children stuck in foster care because their parents' rights had been terminated but there weren't enough families that could afford to adopt them. This resulted in two major problems: children not being able to have the security of a permanant family (and often ageing out of the system) and a great expense to the state. Providing an adoption subsidy helped families be able to afford adding children and therefore providing foster children a forever family; and it saved the state money because the subsidy is much cheaper than the expense of foster care.

I always thought the tax credit was in response to adoptive parents' protests at the expense of adoption when every one else goes to the hospital to deliver and their insurance company or Medicaid covers almost the complete expense. I don't know where I got that idea or if it's true. The down side of the tax credit, that I've seen, is that adoption agencies immediately raised their adoption fees the same amount as the tax credit, making the credit into a subsidy to adoption agencies.

As a foster parent, I have seen crack babies. I haven't seen any children removed to supply the adoption industry. I haven't seen any child removed for "poverty related neglect". The families' problems are much more severe and complicated to warrant having their children removed. Poverty makes every aspect of life hard, but it doesn't cause people to beat and torture their children, to starve their children (when there's some food available) to sexually abuse their children or to not provide a reasonably clean home (no urine, feces, rotting food, drug use supplies etc. lying around)

I have heard of many babies born with drugs in their systems returned home to parents with supervision and treatment-if the parents are willing to try. (Many of them choose the drugs over their children.) I was told that the majority of cases in foster care (all ages of children) involve crack use by the parents. Unfortunately, the parents become completely involved in their addiction and abandon their parenting responsibilities. In my county, if possible after a referral to protective services (depending on the severity of the abuse or neglect and the chance it will continue), families are given support and intervention services to hopefully prevent foster care. Many of the cases that come into care are heartbreaking because the children should have been removed sooner.

We are definitely seeing long-term effects of crack and other drugs in babies' systems. These are not harmless. The author sounded like it was unfair for parents to be arrested for having babies born addicted to crack. For that to happen, the Mom had to be using for a long time during her pregnancy - knowing that it was harmful. If she gave her child illegal drugs any time after birth, she would be arrested, why not before birth?

Parents who want to get their children back are given help in connecting to financial resources if money is a factor in their ability to parent - food stamps, WIC, medicaid, section 8 housing funding, etc.

Sorry this is long, I just don't see the author's article measuring up to what I'm experiecing in my county/state. Please forgive me if I sound too critical. That's not my intention at all. I love a good discussion. Thanks for bringing up the topic.

jen

Wow, if that doesn't tell us all something, I don't know what will. Thanks for sharing this piece.

music

very interesting.
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